March 31, 2007

Parenting Can Be Humorous

As a single-mom of a very precocious 7 y.o. boy, I am always looking to stay one step ahead of my son. That involves reading and listening to other parents and how they handle the awkward situations surounding puberty and sex.

Well, needless to say I have found a parenting guru and a mentor and one that will give me an upper hand when my son goes through this stage. If you have boys [or girls] you really need to read this post on one way to deal wth the condom talk with kids. Personally I would have also done the banana demonstration but that might have been going too far.

It's priceless stuff and great fun reading for a Saturday, so go read Boobs, Injuries & Dr. Pepper! Laughs are guaranteed.

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March 30, 2007

NYC News Buzz: Giuliani

Former NYC mayor, Rudy Giuliani is all over the news today. Leading off all the morning shows and newspapers are excerpts from the Barbara Walters/20/20 television interview which airs tonight at 10:00pm. Those of us on the call will be able to watch the interview in its entirety online, after the show airs.

Also in the news, is Rudy's recent testimony to a grand jury, investigating charges of mob corruption and bribery of the former mayor's Police Commissioner, Bernard Kerik.

I've been saying for over a month that Rudy has too many skeletons in his closet to be a viable Presidential candidate. Ironically, most of the Press corp and city hall insiders know of these skeletons, but I believe they have remained under wraps because Rudy truly is a powerful fearless man (after all, he went after the mob) and he did accomplish a great many positive things for our city.

So, we'll see how much dirt comes out this weekend and how the Giulianis handle it. Polls so far, without the news of his political indiscressions, shows that he leads McCain by almost 15 pts in the polls. We'll see if Jon's political assesments are right in the end, and that America doesn't care about a candidate's marriage or family.

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March 29, 2007

Just for fun

And to test BBC code over at my Mee.nu site. Go take a look while we do beta testing.




Your Dominant Intelligence is Linguistic Intelligence



You are excellent with words and language. You explain yourself well.

An elegant speaker, you can converse well with anyone on the fly.

You are also good at remembering information and convicing someone of your point of view.

A master of creative phrasing and unique words, you enjoy expanding your vocabulary.



You would make a fantastic poet, journalist, writer, teacher, lawyer, politician, or translator.

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March 28, 2007

Who wants to do a BAD Call?

A Bad Example Family and Friends Telephone Call that is. AND ITS FREE! My teleconferencing account will soon be disabled if I don't use it by the end of this month, so I need to get a few people on a call and use it for at least 15 min.

So, is there anyone in the BAD Example clan who wishes to get on the phone this Friday night at 10:00pm Eastern/9:00pm Central/8:00pm Pacific Time. I can have as many as 24 people on the line. Just one thing though, I currently have laryngitis and although I can be on the call, it would only be to listen, since I can't talk.

So.... anyone interested? Daddy? Some of you blog siblings both near, far, and in between? Let me know in the comments and I'll send you via email the info with the toll free number . So what say you Richmond, Friction, Mrs. Who, & Lemon Stand?

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To Be or Not To Be...




You Should Be a Poet



You have a way with words... and a talent for drawing the pure emotions out of experiences.



Your poetry has the potential to make people laugh and cry at the same time. You just need to write it!

Yes, I just need to write... I just need a little inspiration. Something that will get the blood pumping, the creative juices flowing... a little something something. I'll sleep on it and see if I can find it. In the meantime. It's Wednesday, which means a horde of people descending on NYC for Mattinee Theater Shows. I never go out for lunch on Wednesdays because the sidewalks are packed. Tomorrow is a day I'll make an exception as my boss invited me out for lunch. Maybe I'll wave at you when I'm walking past the cameras.

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March 27, 2007

Night after night...

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Night after night her purple traffic
Strews the landing with opal bales;
Merchantmen poise upon horizons,
Dip, and vanish with fairy sails."

~ Emily Dickinson, 1830-1886 ~

Photo credit: JSK Lee

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March 25, 2007

Musical Monday - An Upbeat positive song

Some weeks back I made a presentation before a couple hundred people that got a very good response. Colin wrote all about it here. A number of you asked I post the presentation, but at 12 min in length its just too long. I'm in the process of modifying it for my own personal use, so I will share it with you once I'm done. In the meantime, I'll leave you with one of the songs I used for that presentation entitled Unwritten by Natasha Bedingfield. The Lyrics are below the fold. Enjoy!

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March 24, 2007

The Cost Of 9/11

Thursday, while I was catching up on blog-reading, I came across a post over at Rocket Jones talking about the number of killed on 9/11 and the human cost of the attacks.

The truth is, the total number killed only tells a small part of the story. There are far more numbers that would help paint the whole picture of what the cost of 9/11 has been to this city, and to our country in general. In other words, though some of you may not have been impacted by the attacks directly, its cost you. These numbers are important because they are what legislative analysts, insurance analysts, risk and security analysts will use to guide their decisions when creating policy in their respective fields. 1

Please keep in mind that some of these numbers are fluid and are still changing. 2

I have first listed the economic and then the human cost of the attacks, to make an important point as politicians consider funding cuts and removing troops from Iraq. It is meant as an objective reminder of the cost of choosing to go back defewnsively to a pre-9/11 world.

56 minutes and 102 minutes: The amount of time each tower stood burning.
12 seconds: The time it took for the towers to collapse from the moment they buckled.
7: Number of buildings destroyed when the World Trade Center collapsed
99: Number of days the fires continued to burn at Ground Zero

2,973: Total number killed in the attacks (official figure as of 9/5/06)
19: Total number of hijackers (not included in the above figure)
24: Total number of individuals who are still missing3

343: Number of firefighters and paramedics killed and missing
23: Number of NYPD officers killed and missing
37: Number of Port Authority police officers killed and missing

274: Number of FDNY firefighters who retired between January–July 2001
661: Number of FDNY firefighters who retired between January–July 2002
300: Number of FDNY firefighters on leave for respiratory problems by January 2002
98: Number of FDNY vehicles destroyed

1,506,124: Tons of debris removed from site (including over 1 ton of asbestos):
4,822: Number of people diagnosed & suffering from Ground Zero Lung disease
3, 4110: Number of apartments in lower Manhattan certified eligible for asbestos cleanup

146,100: Number of jobs lost in NYC by Sept. 30th, 2001 as a result of the attacks
6: Days New York Stock Exchange, NASDAQ & American Stock Exchange were closed
1369.7: Biggest cumulative point drop in Dow-Jones Industrial after index re-opened
1.2 Trillion: Total value loss of U.S, stocks in the week after market re-opened
105 Billion: Economic loss to New York City in month following the attacks

600 Million: Estimated cost of cleanup by NY State agencies
970 Million: Total FEMA money spent on the emergency
40.2 Billion: Estimated amount of insurance paid worldwide related to 9/11
7.5 Million: Estimated amount of money needed to overhaul lower-Manhattan subways
4.55 Million: Money granted by U.S. government to rebuild damaged subways stations

60: Number of WTC companies that lost people
115: Number of nations whose citizens were killed in attacks
3:1: Ratio of men to women who died
35 to 39: Age range of the greatest number who died

289: Number of bodies found "intact"
19,858: Body parts found: 19,858 (official figure as of 9/5/06)
1,717: Number of families who got no remains
1609: Number of people who lost a spouse or partner in the attacks
3, 051: Estimated number of children who lost a parent
20: Percentage of Americans who knew someone hurt or killed in the attacks
200: Number of funerals attended by Rudy Giuliani in 2001

1.4 million: Number of Americans who changed their 2001 holiday-travel plans from plane to train or car

525,000: Number of NYC residents suffering from post-traumatic-stress disorder as a result of 9/11 [I'm still one of them, hence the therapeutic value of this blog!]

1. These stats are culled from various sources, some of which are proprietary, so IÂ’m unable to quote all these sources directly. Some of the information was culled from Wikipedia and the NY Times (which I will not link to as it requires membership and means being subjected to lots of spam mail for you and me).
2. All these years later, the clean up and recovery continues but on a smaller scale. Body parts are still being found (as recently as January ‘07) and the identification of the dead thus continues to shift numbers from one column to the next.
3. Remains for one of my friends have yet to be found. Until they do, this topic will remain active on this blog.

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March 23, 2007

The Queen of Queens


You are The Empress

Beauty, happiness, pleasure, success, luxury, dissipation.

The Empress is associated with Venus, the feminine planet, so it represents,
beauty, charm, pleasure, luxury, and delight. You may be good at home
decorating, art or anything to do with making things beautiful.


The Empress is a creator, be it creation of life, of romance, of art or business. While the Magician is the primal spark, the idea made real, and the High Priestess is the one who gives the idea a form, the Empress is the womb where it gestates and grows till it is ready to be born. This is why her symbol is Venus, goddess of beautiful things as well as love. Even so, the Empress is more Demeter, goddess of abundance, thAn sensual Venus. She is the giver of Earthly gifts, yet at the same time, she can, in anger withhold, as Demeter did when her daughter, Persephone, was kidnapped. In fury and grief, she kept the Earth barren till her child was returned to her.


What Tarot Card are You?
Take the Test to Find Out.

Hat tip to Mark of Knocking on the Golden Door.

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March 22, 2007

Guest Blogger - Jon of We Swear

This post was an email I received as part of an offline conversation with my blog-bro, Jon of We Swear (whose blog is currently down due to technical difficulties). In our discussion, I stated my reasons why Rudy Giuliuni's chances for becoming president are non-existent. In my opinion, the 6 marriages alone, between him and his current wife Judith, are enough to kill his chances. Since I was pressed for blog-fodder and found some of his arguments compelling, I've posted it here in its entirety with his permission.

Voting Trends and Rudy's Chances

First, there are several groups of Presidential voters in this country;
- The Non-Voters (who will never vote)
- The May-Voters (who vote if theyÂ’re really motivated - note that Republicans, Democrats, & Centrists/Libertarians/Independents may be in this group)
- The Centrist / Libertarian / Independent (CLI) Voters (are swing voters, who vote for either Republicans or Democrats depending on the issues of the day)
- The Democrat Voters (always vote their party line, and usually vote)
- The Republican Voters (always vote their party line, and usually vote)
(There may be others... [but I agree w/Jon are few in numbers and therefore inconsequential to his point])

Who will vote for Rudy vs other candidates and why?
The Republicans and CILÂ’s voters will put National Security *way* (^10) above other issues.
The Democrat voters will only look at who is supporting their personal (pet) issues.

The "swing" - if you will - are the Republicans & CLIÂ’s. They will support a Democrat if: a) The Republicans are really weak, b) The Democrats are really good, or c) National Security is not an issue. Most people don't want to have the FedGov actively involved in their life. Democrats do a pretty good job of that. Even the moderate Right Wing (which is different than Repub's) have a "leave everyone alone to live their lives as they see fit, God will decide their fate" attitude.

History has shown that a president who is active overseas will be active domestically. He will interfere with people's day-to-day lives and Republicans generally do that. So in order for a Republican to be elected, (against a strong Democrat) he has to be the type that people (Republicans & CLIÂ’s) believe will not interfere with their way of life while supporting National Security.

Republicans are a very forgiving bunch. I'd bet that nearly every R has a friend who has been re-married. And they are still friends. It isn't an "exclusionary" issue. Neither is adultery. While it is still bad, it isn't something that causes a person to exclude them from their life - like lying or stealing. Those things get you kicked out of a friendship. Relationships? Na. That's private stuff and Republicans & CLIÂ’s don't judge like that.

I predict Rudy will succeed because he crosses the bridge that Republicans, CLIÂ’s and some Democrats see as allowing him to be "acceptable". Remember, in a two-party system, the one who wins is the "lesser of two evils". He will be that.

A very important chunk of voting comes from the second group above, the "May-Voters". Within that are all three of the Democrats, Republicans, and CLIÂ’s. They follow politics but need a "motivation" to vote. They skew polls because they claim to be "likely to vote", but the usually don't. In this election, their motivation to vote will come from the two candidates - some a pull towards, some a push away. The pull towards is the Republicans who love Rudy and the Democrats who love Hillary (yes, she will come out of the DNC as the candidate). The push, however, is going to be a huge motivator. And it will be against Hillary. I've seen polls (yes, the polls I just said were skewed) where 45% of the likely voters would vote just to *oppose* Hillary. That's a _huge_ number. Even if it is skewed by a factor of 10, it is still 5% of the voters who will vote for whoever is running against Hillary. And 5% would have been decisive in the last two elections.

As always, the primary determinant between the R and the D will be which party gets their "base" out to vote. With the Electoral College the way it is (and that's a good thing), the Republicans will have more areas voting on the basis of National Defense than the Democrats will on their disparate issues. And with Rudy being the strongest imaginable on National Defense, he's got a huge chunk right there. If you throw in that he supports many things that CLIÂ’s and "may-vote" Democrats have (abortion, gay marriage) - heck and even the personal issues of many Democrats - he's going to win.

The issues you bring up may be a problem for him with the far-Right. But they are *huge* pulls for people from the center, center-left, and even into the middle-left. And those three groups are much bigger than the far-right.

I'm not saying he will be a _great_ president, I'm just predicting he will be our _next_ president.

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March 21, 2007

As the House Turns

House Judiciary Votes to Subpoena White House Staff

In the ongoing saga of "As the House Turns", a Judiciary subcommittee voted unanimously today to subpoena several senior current and former White House officials. They are seeking testimony regarding the firing of eight federal prosecutors which you have undoubtedly heard about. Some of those who will be served subpoena's are: Karl Rove, former White House Counsel Hariet Miers, their deputies, and Kyle Sampson, former chief of staff to Attorney General Alberto Gonzales.

In taking the vote, the committee rejected yesterday’s offer by President Bush to make his aides available to talk privately with the House and Senate Judiciary committees, but not under oath or on the record. Shortly before the vote, White House Press Secretary Tony Snow said of the committee, “The question they’ve got to ask themselves is, are you more interested in a political spectacle than getting the truth?” Subcommittee Chair Linda Sanchez responded, “There must be accountability.” Tune in for tomorrow's episode of this intriguings saga which I will dubb: "Will they or won't they [testify]?"

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Cubicle Window to Times Square

Are you sitting in your cube wishing you had a view to some interesting, wild or exotic location? Well, now you can turn your monitor into your very own window on the world.

If you ever wondered what it would be like to hang out in New York City,
here's your very own window on Times Square, via 8 live webcams. It's like having your own corner office. Maybe someday, when I'm not so busy I'll go and stand in front of one of those cameras with a sign saying Hello World, so you can see me..... NOT! That is so not me. But it was a funny thought though.

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March 19, 2007

Musical Monday

Update: During comment outages you can still post a comment at this site by going to the 3rd section on my sidebar entitled: Site Syndication & Resources clicking on the Cell/PDA Site and entering your interesting and witty comments there. Everyone will be able to see them. Feel free to have a comment party. Can you tell I'm jonesing for comments? Or to de-stress, why not listen to some music and then tell me if you loved it or hated it.

Portuguese is one of the 5 languages I understand & speak. If you ask me where I learned it I couldnÂ’t really tell you, because I was too young to remember. What I can tell you is when I returned 10 yrs ago to do volunteer work for a month in the Amazon region of Brazil, I was speaking Portuguese by the end of the first week.

It was then that I first heard the incredibly beautiful voice of Dulce Pontes. Last night as I lay in bed, the melody of Cancao de Mar / Song of the Sea, returned to haunt my sleep, as it does every so often when I think of my friends. I relate to the story she tells, that of the cruel sea snatching her loved ones away from her too soon.

My second favorite song is a duet she sings in Italian with Andrea Boccelli entitled O Mar e Tu / The Sea & You. The lyrics are so beautiful IÂ’ve translated them for you (my Italian is better than my Portuguese) in the extended entry.
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DHC Terror Alert - Extremists Seek School Bus Work

The Dept of Homeland Security has issued a terror alert advising police and other security officials around the country to be aware that members of extremist groups have recently signed up as school bus drivers or purchased school buses in the United States.

The memo notes that althought the DHC & FBI “have no information indicating these individuals are involved in a terrorist plot against the homeland... Most attempts by foreign nationals in the United States to acquire school bus licenses to drive them are legitimate.”

Since I know a few of my readers are teachers, here's a School Bus Security Handout and Guide for School Bus Drivers that might help nervous parents because they can share them with their children's bus driver. I will post shortly some security measures parents themselves can take if they see something suspicious. Parents: the bottom line is if you get a gut feeling about something or someone not being right with regard to your children's school bus, follow your instincts! It was my own instincts that saved me on the morning of 9/11.

Update: After spending a couple of hours trying to find something that would help a parent think about what to look for I realized that the 2 items I've posted for bus drivers are the best things a parent can read. I find it terribly sad that children are always the easiest and most vulnerable targets.

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March 18, 2007

Game Girl


What Video Game Character Are You? I am a Gauntlet Adventurer.I am a Gauntlet Adventurer.


I strive to improve my living conditions by hoarding gold, food, and sometimes keys and potions. I love adventure, fighting, and particularly winning - especially when there's a prize at stake. I occasionally get lost inside buildings and can't find the exit. I need food badly. What Video Game Character Are You?

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Before & After The Snow Storm

I'd bet you'd never guess this was Central Park during a snow storm.

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This is a pic with an actual camera, instead of my cell phone, of the lovely Central Park earlier today, when it was sunny.

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March 17, 2007

Slight Kvetching/Complaining Session

I normally don’t like to complain about my life. Mainly ‘cause as far as lives go I have it pretty good. But this week was one in which Murphy’s law was off the hook in my personal life! Believe me, I don’t want to dwell on it, so I’ll just record the highlights below the fold, for those who want to read what an urban, hard-working, single-parent deals with on a daily basis.
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March 16, 2007

Dreaming

And wishing I was there, on the beach in the U. S. Virgin Islands sitting in a hammock swinging away under the shade of a palm tree a soft breeze lulls me to sleep, instead of here enduring legislative hell week!!!! I'm still hangin' in there doing most of my blog visiting via my Treo 650.

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March 15, 2007

To The Naked Eye




You scored as Passion. You are an incredibly sexy and very passionate person. Whether that passion is for good or evil has yet to be determined. Your charisma and sex appeal creates an aura or magnetism, which captivates others in your great power, as they seemingly flock to your service. You are very competitive, almost to a fault. But you also let others win on occasion.

Passion

95%

Mysterious

60%

Diamond Eyes

50%

Eyes full of Pain

0%

What do your eyes reveal about you?(PICS!)
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Gosh, that is one incredible eye. I have a definite weakness for green eyes. And yes, I do live life with incredible passion. When you die and get a second chance at life, there is no other way to live but with passion. However, my expression of that passion is neither reckless nor self-centered. I have too much self-respect and care too deeply for those in my life to have it be so.

So how can you tell how much I care for you? The answer is always in the eyes. If you stand before me and look deeply enough, my eyes will reveal the secret affection I have for you. So take your time to look deeply into my unadorned naked eye. Through it you will uncover the mystery and the magic that is life with me. And while you stare deeply, you will begin to find yourself getting sleepy... very sleepy... and the longer you stare the sleepier you will become. You are now getting a strong urge to go to your ATM machine to withdraw huge amounts of cash. Depositing said cash in an envelope will you a spine-tingling chill as you never felt before. That spine-tingling chill will become something quite intense as you send Oddybobo some money for her campaign and wish her a happy belated birthday!

Picture & post courtesy of my Treo 650.

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March 14, 2007

Bombay Calling

I've been experiencing software glitches for the past FOUR DAYS, which has left me with no net service or email. Every day I've called tech support only to receive minor fixes to some problems and no overall solutions. Below is a short, somewhat humorous video, of what I've been experiencing. Of course, tech support is the least of my problems, but more on that later.

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