November 04, 2006

Planning ahead

One of the reasons people think I'm so efficient is because I'm a planner. I like to plan way in advance for everything: I finalize my vacation plans in February and by the end of September I'm done with Christmas shopping. In doing that I then have time to enjoy my holidays. This year I've made a sudden change that will definitely baffle my family members and will definitely excite my son. I decided that just this morning after waking up with the idea in my head and checking my bank account. A long weekend away from everything and everyone. A weekend surrounded by woods and nature, and good simple christian folk. I don't have any details or research all I have is a desire to unplug from this concrete steel hard city and plug into the warmth and hearth of spirit and love of nature and God.

In the summer of 2001, my friends and I had, as usual, planned our entire winter. After running and completing the grueling 26 mile run of the NYC Marathon we would celebrate together by giving thanks during a long Thanksgiving weeked at an Amish inn that was also a working farm.

As you know they never made it, and till now I haven't either. But for some reason I woke up this morning hoping to do something special that weekend for my son and me. So, hopefully it'll come to be.

But for today, I'll point you to where you can find a bit of fun & silliness.

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A delish dish

Now that the weather has turned colder, and IÂ’m spending more time indoors, IÂ’ve been wanting to cook a lot. Now I donÂ’t post all that I cook because I donÂ’t want: (a) to make people jelaous, and (b) to seem more of an over-achiever than I really am, unlike other folks ; )

But this time I will, if only to help a blog-bro out. In his latest post, Gebiv, tells how disappointed he was in the Kung Po chicken he was given at his favorite Chinese restaurant that is under new mgt. Well, if youÂ’d really like to give it a try itÂ’s not really that difficult. I think youÂ’ll have a tougher time finding all the ingredients in your local supermarket than making this dish.

A little history though, before I start. This dish in China is really called “Gong Bao”. In the U.S. you can find this dish under the name of: Kung Po, Kung Pao and Kung Pow. You can make this dish with beef, shrimp or with Chicken. I’ve included the Chicken recipe and have cut it down from the 8 servings I used to make for my friends to 2. I’ve also indicated some alternative ingredients in the list.

Now, I know that when you at the list of ingredients youÂ’ll probably say to yourself thatÂ’s an awful lot of stuff to buy for one dish. Well, the good news is that IÂ’ll begin posting some of the Asian recipes that I learned to cook while living overseas so that you can use up those ingredients, because they are the staples of Asian cooking.

A word to the lazy and calorie conscious (I'm not linking you 'cause you know who you are) out there (lol!), this dish takes from prep to finished product about 45 min. and it is NOT low cal. If you tried doing that with dish youÂ’d eliminate the flavor so donÂ’t even try it.
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November 03, 2006

Song for funky thoughts

Who's Got My Back by Creed

Run hide
All that was sacred to us
Sacred to us
See the signs
The covenant has been broken
By mankind
Leaving us with no shoulder...with no shoulder
To rest our head on
To rest our head on
To rest our head on

Who's got my back now?
When all we have left is deceptive
So disconnected
what is the truth now?

(what is the truth?)

There's still time
All that has been devastated
Can be recreated
Realize
We pick up the broken pieces
Of our lives
Giving ourselves to each other..ourselves to each other
To rest our head on
To rest our head on
To rest our head on
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November 02, 2006

What a bunch of Slackers!

Don't believe me? Go here and read! Don't even bother reading the rest of my blog - GO SEE for yourself!

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I can't write

I donÂ’t know why I ever thought that I could and should participate in this writing project because the truth of the matter is I canÂ’t. It was the single biggest stumbling block in finishing my masters program. Since I could not write on command like the others, I edited other's work and I encouraged and inpired. I did that so well that I was hired by 3 different professors to edit their books for publishing. I didnÂ’t get paid on those projects because my aim was to having some representative work for my portfolio when I applied to work in publishing. I can also claim to my credit 2 entries to an academic literary encyclopedia, but that's academic work. NOw, ask me to write fiction or poetry with a deadline or to put 1,666 words on paper per day over 30 days and I get jammed up so tight I cant find my way out of a document.

Of course it doesn't help that in the past year I have seen 12 bloggers who have managed to publish their blogs. Yes, that's write, including one of a woman who took a job as a cab driver because she wasn't motivated to do anything else to make money and needed something to write about. Another of those published bloggers is on their 3rd concept book.

I have to tell you though, I AM happy for them because I did enjoy their blogs (well, except the cab driver's) and in fact linked to them. Still, that doesnÂ’t take away from my own frustration over seeing others writing away and managing to come up with something substantial to write about. For me, the writing experience is incredibly different. I have be drawn, almost compelled to write over everything else in order for me to produce something... even something decent. I have to be sent to the page from my inner being, otherwise I can just sit there and bat stuff around for hours.

In this case, if I continue to write about not being able to write IÂ’ll only manage to implode the little writing esteem I have managed to develop since starting this blog, so IÂ’ll stop while I have a few shreds of esteem left.

Believe me itÂ’s not for lack of ideasÂ… I have them. As proof I put the 3 best story ideas that I attempted today in the extended entry. The truth is I didnÂ’t feel them. They felt so hollow. And since they lacked the emotional essence that drives my writing I just couldnÂ’t continue. The last thing I want when I write is to feel that IÂ’m forcing it. So to those of you participating in this novel writing project I wish you much passion and drive so you may complete your work.

Good luck!
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Open Letter to Army Wife Toddler Mom:

Dear AWTM:

Tammi and I were discussing how competitive and vindictive some women can be. I see that doesn’t stop at the workplace. I have seen your picture and you are a very beautiful woman, so in my estimation the only motivation for her to say that was to injure you where it hurts women most – our self-image.

My guess is that she did that out of anger and seething jealously. She is so unhappy with her small unproductive life, that she resorted to mean childish behavior.

Earlier this week my female boss removed me off a project saying I lacked the sophistication, polished image and experience to organize the event. At every turn when she’s done similar things in front of others she has looked awful in their eyes. Today, we were to meet a couple of ‘full birds’ of high rank to do a run-through for the upcoming event my firm is hosting. In the meeting she belittled me in front of these men and my peers, while simultaneously batting eyelashes and acting like a desperate school girl towards them (all men). I said nothing, instead I left her to her fate.

Well, Fate came walking through the door not 15 min. later in the form of our Chief Operating Officer (who remembers me from when we worked in DC) claiming his conference room. She tried to exert her alpha pseudo male authority, not only by cutting him off before he was finished, but also by inferring it was an accumulation of my errors that probably led to the roomÂ’s double booking.

As he walked over to stand behind me, he said to her with a smile “That’s not possible...” and placing his hand gently on my shoulder, continued, “Michele is one of the most efficient people I know… she even puts me to shame.”

Ahhhhh, the taste of retribution is even sweeter when things take care of themselves!

So I suspect Fate will take care of that womanÂ’s nastiness for you. You keep being the very witty, incredible woman that you are, while she sits at home in her narrow existence, not being published, not being sought for commentary and not being admired the way you are, for the love and hard work you put into your family. While you continue to inspire she will continue to repels. I have nothing but pity for the people in her life!

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November 01, 2006

Tammi Does NYC

Yep, Tammi's a PRO! Don't let her southern charm fool you. She came, she conquered and she left us a little empty for having had the pleasure of the Tammi experience.

Though I was too sick to go out and play, we got the oppty to talk. And talk we did... about NYC, what doing business here is like, managing to succeed in business in a predominantly man's world, cubicle life (yep, Tammi got a good dose and whiff of what that's like), blogging and what's up ahead for her. Throughout it all we managed to laugh and I managed to not throw up due to my flu. She kept my mind going which kept me not thinking about how I was feeling. Tammi, thanks for the phone calls!

Don't let her posts fool you, she truly aced NY and I say we're the better for her having been here.

My only regret was not being able to meet up with her and exchange warm hugs. Darn! Yet another blogger I don't get to meet. Yep, my record for meeting up with bloggers is non-existent. I think I'm just going to have to go out of town just so I can meet up with Tammi, Laughing Wolf, Teresa, Eric, and myriad of other bloggers in the midwest.

Anyway, Tammi, though your time here was brief, you will be missed. I'll be working from home most of the day and will venture out for just 1 mtg. Oh, and at the mtg. you won't be able to miss me. I'll be the woman in the back with the lovely skin color of pale gray to green, with a garbage pail next to me.

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Founder's Quote of the Week

"Why has government been instituted at all? Because the passions of men will not conform to the dictates of reason and justice without constraint."

-- Alexander Hamilton (Federalist No. 15)

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October 31, 2006

Ghoulish pranks? Maybe later...

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Update: I thought I felt better. It was my body playing a trick on me! For some good clean halloween jokes (for all ages) please visit Daz'd & Confused.

I'm still home sick with the Flu... oh joy!

I hope all of you enjoy scaring the stuffin out of each other. I've been home all weekend with my little pumpkin (that's one of my pet names for him) who had the flu and is now better.

Hope it's a fun day!


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October 26, 2006

Jokes for Sgt. Hook

Because I can never refuse a request from a handsome military man, who works tirelessly defending our country and protecting it's citizens, I'm publishing a couple of jokes that got me in trouble yesterday.

Eleven people were hanging on a rope under a helicopter, ten men and one woman. The rope was not strong enough to carry them all, so they decided that one has to leave, otherwise they are all going to fall. They were not able to name that person, until the woman held a very touching speech.

She said that she will voluntarily let go of the rope, because as a woman she is used to giving up everything for her husband and kids, or for men in general, without ever getting anything in return.

As soon as she finished her speech, all the men started clapping their hands.......

There's more jokes in the extended entry. Afterwards go congratulate the good Sgt. on his upcoming achievement of his half millionth visitor.
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October 25, 2006

BIG REMINDER TO ME

When participating in a global teleconference from your desk, don't ever visit humorous sites, especially VW's Humor for Dreaded Wednesday. If you absolutely must visit, please remember to MUTE your phone! Otherwise the conference host just might ask you to share the humor with the group.

UPDATE: Another important reminder: When sitting on teleconferences back to back make sure that you GO TO THE BATHROOM before signing on to your next meeting, otherwise it will be another hour before you can go. Your co-workers will definitely not appreciate seeing a puddle beneath your seat.

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October 24, 2006

Just Because...

A little poetry for the soul. For no other reason than just because I needed a little poetry break on a very "challenging" day of back to backs with only 20 min. scheduled in for lunch. This poem came to mind when I overheard one co-worker say to another "What about God?" during a conversation as they walked passed.

What about God?

From desert cliff and mountaintop we trace the wide design,
Strike-slip fault and overthrust and syn and anticline...
We gaze upon creation where erosion makes it known,
And count the countless aeons in the banding of the stone.
Odd, long-vanished creatures and their tracks & shells are found;
Where truth has left its sketches on the slate below the ground. [1]
The patient stone can speak, if we but listen when it talks.
Humans wrote the Bible; God wrote the rocks.

There are those who name the stars, who watch the sky by night,
Seeking out the darkest place, to better see the light.
Long ago, when torture broke the remnant of his will,
Galileo recanted, but the Earth is moving still [2]
High above the mountaintops, where only distance bars,
The truth has left its footprints in the dust between the stars.
We may watch and study or may shudder and deny,
Humans wrote the Bible; God wrote the sky.

By stem and root and branch we trace, by feather, fang and fur,
How the living things that are descend from things that were.
The moss, the kelp, the zebrafish, the very mice and flies,
These tiny, humble, wordless things -- how shall they tell us lies?
We are kin to beasts; no other answer can we bring.
The truth has left its fingerprints on every living thing.
Remember, should you have to choose between them in the strife,
Humans wrote the Bible; God wrote life.

And we who listen to the stars, or walk the dusty grade [3]
Or break the very atoms down to see how they are made,
Or study cells, or living things, seek truth with open hand.
The profoundest act of worship is to try to understand.
Deep in flower and in flesh, in star and soil and seed,
The truth has left its living word for anyone to read.
So turn and look where best you think the story is unfurled.
Humans wrote the Bible; God wrote the world.

-- Catherine Faber

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October 23, 2006

Artistic Endeavors

In today's blog prompt, Tink has really spoken to me, by picking my favorite subject - Art. In her post she asks her readers what is our favorite type of art and who is our favorite artist. If I were forced to pick one type of artistic expression it would be a huge struggle between photography and sculpture. In the mood that I'm in today I'd like to work at moulding some clay and in so doing be able to give my thoughts and feelings shape.

As for my favorite artist, I don't think there could be just one. I do love Rodin's work and that of Camille Claudel's. But I also love much of the biblically inspired sculpture of the 13th through 17th Century. They are my photographs into a past that has long been lost. Anyway, below are the results to the quiz I took. My answer was based on my feelings at the end of my day.
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October 21, 2006

Funny Moment

I was over at VW's site reading some really funny anecdotes and it brought to mind one of my own. In high school I found myself in Midtown Manhattan one sunny afternoon when this handsome young man steps in front of me dressed in his Sunday best and says hello with his girlfriend in tow. Puzzled I simply said hello back and stood there for a moment because they were blocking my way. Realizing I didn't recognize him he finally said: "It's Tony from the YMCA."

"Ohhhhh" I said looking at him up and down realizing who it was. "I'm sorry, I didn't recognize you with clothes on."

At hearing this, his new girlfriend yanked her hand out of his and punched him in the arm. "I've never seen you naked!"

To which I quickly added: "I'm only used to seeing him in that tiny speedo he wears during swim class." That didn't make thing any better, so I simply said good bye and quickly walked away leaving Tony to deal with a very angry girlfriend.

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Weekend To Do List

This list is normally in my PDA but Tink's Friday blog prompt made me think I should share it with y'all so you can see us city folks are no slouchers. I wonder what the suburban folks in the blogosphere are doing this weekend?

    TO DO Saturday!!!
  • Measure ALL living room windows
  • Hardware store – buy vise grip wrench, adjustable wrench, socket wrench, mini-blinds, and foam caulking to seal window gaps.
  • Fix leak under bathroom sink
  • Replace all old blinds in living room
  • Staightening out & dusting the living room
  • Do my Banking (get money order, deposit checks, get roll of quarters, get info on life insurance)
  • Go to post office
  • Visit Optometrist to get Pumpkin's eyeglasses repaired
  • Office Depot – buy filing cabinet
  • Visit Fishmonger – get swordfish, sea bass and mussels
  • Supermarket – buy groceries for next 2 weeks
  • Go to Drug Store – buy sundries
  • Take my son to the park and play softball/catch
  • While watching College Football do the following:

    - Plan/prep dinners for Saturday, Monday & Tuesday

    - Go online & schedule Milk/Fruit/Veggie delivery

    - Move old files into new file cabinet

    - Put together exercise equipment

  • While watching Tigers devour Cardinals

    - reconcile checkbook

    - write checks for bils


    - review EOB's against billls submitted to insurer

    - plan for the week ahead

    UPDATE: Office Depot didn't have any filing cabinets in the store (huh?). Per salesperson I must order them online. As for fixing the leak and putting together the exercise equipment, I must say that I'm very proud of myself and did both very easily and well, needing only 3 bandaids in the process!
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October 20, 2006

Human remains found at 9/11 site

With each new human remains discovery I wonder if this will finally be the time that Mike's remains will be identified.

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Date With Destiny

detroit tigers1.jpg The Cards left my beloved Mets at the alter of of the World Series. Since I'm feeling jilted and frustrated I decided to pay my bet/debt as quickly as possible.

So for the next week, or until The Tigers handily and quickly slaughter the Cards, this logo will remain prominently displayed on my sidebar.

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October 19, 2006

What a single NYC girl takes to bed

This girl has been so incredibly busy at work that she will be taking to bed a couple of briefing books on national security and a congressional report on the Military & Defense Dept.Â’s Information Operations and Cyberwar Capabilities and Related Policy Issues.

The latter is really interesting reading. Really!

Link updated - thanks to RSM.

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October 17, 2006

Active Recruitment

Sgt Reyes is actively recruiting subscribers to this new calendar. Just in case you need an additional incentive, 100% of the proceeds will benefit injured veterans and their families.

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This calendar, published by Freedom Is Not Free, shows former Marine Corps Sgt. Rudy Reyes, of Kansas City, Mo. on the cover of their 2007 calendar 'Americas's Heroes: Reconnaissance Marines'. Please visit their website to view the pictures and to purchase your own copy. My favorite month is September. What's yours?

To view the Today interview with Sgt Reyes and some of his fellow marines click this link.

(AP Photo/Freedom Is Not Free, Tim Mantoani)

UPDATE: Will gladly give equal time to a non-profit woman's calendar that meets my approval.

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October 15, 2006

Birthday Boys & Girl

A couple of my favorite bloggers have either recently celebrated a birthday or are about to. I want to celebrate them in the way they have celebrated my efforts in living life - with lots of humor. So here for them are some very special gifts:

For Dear Sweet Eric: The big question was what to get a man that has everything in life. The only thing I could come up with that he needed, was something to fend off those fearless nubile promiscous squirrels he has roaming his property. Here it is Eric, your very own squirrel protection system.

For Zonker - Mr. Funnyman the Thunderman: Sweetie, thanks for thinking and calling me in good times and in bad. Here's a litle something to keep his mouth busy!

For Jim - Mr. Joisey Cool: Here's a sweet set for you to play with ; )

My blog sisters are all incrediblely smart, funny and sexy women. This week my PDA told me it was one of my blog sis' birthdays. VW, I had your birthday on my calendar for this week, so I'm celebrating it now. Sorry about the mix-up but I'm sure you won't mind when you see that I've gotten you your very own luv-mobile with a special edition pillow. Enjoy!

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